How to date when… you’re a people pleaser

On paper, being a people-pleaser sounds great. Making other people happy? Doing pleasing things and everyone is pleased with you? Sign me up. 

But the thing is – and I was as shocked as you – people-pleasing doesn’t actually mean doing nice things or being considerate. No. It is booting down your own boundaries regularly because they matter to you less than someone else’s wishes. It’s erasing your needs because you think they make you difficult, and difficult peoplehellip;

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